I can’t believe we are officially at the halfway point (20 weeks) into my pregnancy. Most days it literally still feels like I just got the news and I’m standing there in a haze of disbelief staring at those two pink lines, but then I look down at my belly and remember those days are long gone.
The last 3 weeks have been pretty mellow in regards to pregnancy symptoms and changes. This second trimester has truly been a God-send and I still feel really really good most days. School has officially begun again here on Maui so my coaching schedule is getting busier and busier by the week. I am really excited to start my third year of coaching since I absolutely love my job but I also know how quickly the time is going to go now, game over!
This past week has been a little tougher on me as I did catch a little something and I’m still not sure if it was bad allergies, a summer cold, the flu or just the stress of my schedule picking up but it had me down for the count. It’s honestly the worst that I’ve felt so far through this pregnancy process (which I know is a blessing in itself) but I’m also so glad that I’m back on the up and up and feeling better, thank goodness!
August so far has been fun because we hit the jack pot of ultrasound appointments. We will have 4 by the time the month is over which means so many Baby Stew viewings! We had our “gender” ultra sound on August 4th which revealed that baby Stew is indeed a BOY! Haha, we got lucky that we got to find out earlier with the specialist but it was also such a nice relief to hear yet again that he is indeed a boy, happy danceeeeee!
The following day August 5th I had my 19 week check up with my doctor. She confirmed (again) that baby was a boy and that all of our tests for abnormalities, down syndrome etc, had come back normal thank you Jesus! I also had a cervix test to measure the length of my cervix to septum and it was normal length which means my cervix is stretching with baby and making room for him to grow, which is the best case scenario. I have another cervix length test scheduled for next week and then I see my specialist again on the 25th to check that growth is still on track! So far all is checking out, and my pregnancy is still considered “normal” which we are feeling very blessed about.
As the days continue to go by I’m feeling more and more connected to the process and I’m loving it more and more. I can feel baby boy moving pretty consistently now and it’s the most amazing and reassuring feeling in the world. The movements are still pretty light but Colt was able to feel his first official movement the other night before bed which was amazing. It was so awesome to see his face light up as he said “Jenn I swear I just felt it, was that it..” — indeed it was (happy heart)
With the halfway point here and gone and the clock officially ticking we both have ourselves pretty emerged in the world of baby, parenting and birthing books. I love that we are slowly growing into “informed baby people” together one chapter, opinion and conversation at a time. I just know we are going to make a great team at this labor, birth and parenting thing!
This week we have also officially launched the start to our baby registry which has been equally as fun as it has been overwhelming! I have also started my research on doulas! We are hoping we can start interviewing with a few soon so I can get my birth plan working. With that being said if anyone has any great advice or insight on doulas here on Maui please pass it along my way.
With summer coming to an end (theoretically) the countdown is officially on and I can feel the list of “to do’s” piling up as I type. So much to do, so little time yet my main goal is to relax and enjoy the ride so with that I am off to yoga!
Until next time…
Jocelyn said:
I see you are reading Ina Mae! A little granola, but the BEST way to prepare for a natural childbirth without intervention if that is what you are going for! Also consider Bradley classes – it is a little longer than most birthing classes, but it really teaches your partner to be a doula (coach) too and makes them feel like a part of the birth! Best of luck and let me know if you want to chat! I am passionate about helping women have the experience of birth that they want to have! It can be the most empowering moment of your life if you feel like you are in the driver’s seat!
xoxo Jos
jenniferleestewart said:
Hi Jos!
Yes we are reading it based off of your recommendation to do so during Anu & Joe’s wedding. I’m having a hard time finding classes here beyond the basic birthing stuff so I’m meeting with two different doulas next week to see if they can point me in the right direction. Ideally I would love to feel confident enough to have Colt coach me through the entire birth if I am able to have a natural birth which is the plan. I also however have to be realistic as my septum could potentially cause the baby to be breech but I’m visualizing that isn’t going to happen! I’m also exploring the world of hypnobirthing I’ve heard great things and had a friend who had a great experience. Have you heard of it?
Are you going Bradley again this time around? I’m so excited for you and would love to chat soon once I meet with some doulas and get a better idea of what resources are available to me!
xoxoxo
oursonnylife said:
HI!! Yeah 20 weeks!! I love that part of pregnancy:) I love all your books and I have one more to add if you have time-its my FAVE pregnancy book of all time, i know you’ll love it-Orgasmic Birth by Elizabeth Davis. It’s amazing and I still remember reading it one day on the beach in Maui and this old man walking by and looking and giving me the most horrified face-hahahaha:) I’m soo excited for you!! love you, Chelsea