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A Month of Love & Thanks 

11 Wednesday Nov 2015

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Baby Boy, baby shower, baby stew brew, family, love, pregnancy

October was hands down my favorite month so far of pregnancy! The whole month had us smothered in love and laughter and celebrations. Being able to share the first few weeks of our last trimester with family and friends truly meant the world to us. It also made us realize how truly blessed not only we are but how truly blessed Cash is [already].

October covered weeks 28 through 32 which means we are officially in the last trimester of our first pregnancy, how this is even possible — I have no idea! If my belly wasn’t so big I wouldn’t believe it BUT baby boy makes that kinda hard with his non-stop kicking and punching and moving and growing. It’s so fun to be able to feel him all the time now and to never have to worry if he’s doing ok in there. If I want to know all I have to do is place a hand on my tummy and within minutes he lets me know he’s doing just fine. The connection we continue to grow every day just takes my breath away. He already seems so strong and so resilient and I just can’t wait to hold him. Thinking about looking into his eyes for the very first time just puts me into an immediate tail spin of giggles and butterflies.

Ok enough of me swooning over Cash and back to swooning over October. I will also add that pregnancy has made me a total sap. I’ve never been one to get overly emotional about anything but lately forget about it, I will see a sad or heartwarming commercial on tv and I’m toast. So with that you can imagine how overwhelming it was to have a month completely surrounded by love and family.

We kicked off the month with Ashley and our friend Jaye flying in from California. October 10th was our set baby shower(s) and of course it wouldn’t have been complete without sister Stew in town to celebrate. They flew in a few days early which was great since I was on fall break so we had plenty of time to relax and play tourist before the festivities of the baby shower weekend began! They also got to come with me to my specialist appointment to see Cash which was so special for me since up until then only Colt and I had been able to experience that.

Ashley meeting the baby bump for the first time

Playing tourist all over the island


By Thursday baby shower mode was in full effect. Anu and Ashley were working hard on putting together an amazing morning brunch of just close girlfriends while my family was working hard on our co-ed Baby Stew Brew BaBy-Q. I knew my mom, dad, sister, Mike, Deni, Amelia and Meghan were all flying in from Oahu for the fun and festivities but what I didn’t realize was that my best friend Kristen was planning the biggest surprise ever and flying in from Florida to be here. I knew she had been helping out a ton with the shower but we had talked about her coming and we decided that it was too much for her to come twice and that I really just needed her to be here to meet Cash after he was born. We were both (or so I thought) really sad and jammed up about it but little did I know she had been plotting and planning on being here for months and I had NO clue.

Thursday night my parents flew in and the next morning the rest of my Oahu family. We were was so excited to have my parents, sister, Mike, Deni, Amelia and Meg all here for the shower. They all got straight to work on Friday with shopping and crafting and baking and cooking while Colt and I had to go to work. Clueless I went to my afternoon shift feeling eager and anxious to get off so I could get back home to enjoy my weekend with my family! Little did I know that as I ended my first class I would look up to find Colt watching me with a girl standing beside him. At first I couldn’t register that it was Kristen standing in Maui at my school but then my brain caught up to my eyes and I lost it!! It was her!! Kristen was here in Maui! I couldn’t believe it as I ran over to give her the biggest hug, it was honestly a dream come true to have her here.

Kristen loving the baby bump for the first time

…and the fun never stopped

    

The weekend kicked off and both showers were absolutely without a doubt perfection. The love, hard work, time and attention to detail that went into both of them was felt on every single level. We couldn’t have asked for a more magically perfect day for our baby boy. We were surrounded by so much love near and far and we are so thankful to each and every one of you for loving us and Cash so much.

   

These two, hostess with the mostest. You girls really out did yourselves.

  

We absolutely loved all the video messages sent from all of our family members and friends, it truly meant the world to us to see and hear your voices on such a special day



 
  
    
  
Brunch was amazing and having all of my favorite girls in one place to celebrate Cash was so surreal. Thank you Anu for opening up your home and turning it into a baby shower wonderland, I’m so grateful for all the time and love that was put in to every single detail to make it so very special!

After the morning brunch we transitioned right over into BaBy-Q mode and got ready for our co-ed shower. My dad and sister and mom had spent all day Friday cooking and setting up and baking to get ready for the day. The boys woke up early to go set up the tent and tables and hold the area. It couldn’t have been a more beautiful set up. Every detail was exactly Colt & I’s style and it was just so amazing to be surrounded by all of our closest family and friends.

My mom made a clothesline of handmade onesies as a decoration and they were so awesome! Anu’s brother in law let us use his heavy duty tent set up which was a lifesaver with the wind!
  

Deni made us this awesome and crafty diaper cake it was so perfect and so special

Kristen got these awesome koozies made for party favors they were a huge hit

The day was filled with great food, yummy drinks, baby blue desserts, fun games and lots of laughs.

One of the best parts of the day was when my Mom busted out these bean bag sperms that she made for cornhole! They were so awesome!

We are so grateful to my Mom and Sister for all their hard work and planning. Also to my Dad, Mike, Mark, Sam, Joe, Meg, Kristen & Deni for all your help with set up and break down. And of course to Amelia for being the easiest & happiest baby in the world!

As the day came to an end we were blessed with a perfectly magical Maui sunset! It was a great ending to a beautiful day!


We honestly can’t say “thank you” enough. With both showers along with all the presents we are receiving in the mail daily we are officially ready to start checking a lot of items off our list and we couldn’t be more excited or grateful! Next up operation nursery but not before a few days of some much needed rest!

Baby Stew Monthly Recap

02 Friday Oct 2015

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Baby Boy, baby stew, end of second trimester, first time mom

Month:

September 

Baby’s Size:

Weeks 24 – 27 

Eggplant, Cabbage, Squash, bunch of Bananas

I’m feeling:

Confident but apprehensive (I know two very conflicting words & emotions) try feeling them at the same time! And when I say apprehensive I don’t mean that I am fearful that something bad is going to happen, I’m more just anxious from time to time about all the unknown to come. I feel so confident in my pregnancy and my body’s ability to keep Cash safe it’s hard to think that he will be living on the “outside” in just 13 short weeks or so! 

Food I love:

Captain crunch was my all time favorite snack this month along with talenti Alphonso Mango and Roman Raspberry sorbetto and apples! 

Steak is also still high on the list along with salads and watermelon. 

Pros of September: 

  • We did our first healthy pregnancy class at the beginning of the month which was fun! It was based on the Bradley method of birthing which is a method we are both fond of. It was informative and was also a great opportunity to be around other couples on similar journeys! 
  • We spent Labor Day weekend in Oahu with my sister, Mike and my parents. It’s honestly so special and so important to us to be around family sharing all of these moments right now as much as we can. We also spent some time with Deni and Ameila which is always a huge highlight of my trip and this time even more so since Colt got to meet Amelia for the first time! It was so incredible to see him with her! We also went to Babies R Us which was a fun experience since we were able to use the gun to register for a bunch of stuff on our registry. My favorite part was watching how excited Colt was about everything! My sister (Tia) and Mom (MeMe) also got to feel Cash moving which was SO special since up until that point Colt & I were the only two who had felt him.  

Family beach days are my favorite

  

Just “normal” behavior from these two when they are together

  

Just stop it right now, my heart is offically mush

  

She is my favorite of all times ever, I’m so excited her and Cash will grow up together

  

Ok, now my heart is really offically mush

  

My Dad is going to be a Vavó

  

Watch out, we were dangerous with that gun, LOL

    

  • We had our first official meeting with Kris our Doula and we started working on my birth plan. It’s so great and comforting to have her walking us through each and every single aspect of labor, delivery and postpartum. I feel SO empowered and excited after our meetings with her and I am so happy we made the decision to have her with us on this journey.

My Birth Plan under Construction

  • I did my gestational diabetes test on Tuesday September 22nd I don’t know why but I was SO nervous about it. I had heard such horror stories about the drink being so bad and woman getting so sick afterwards so I am thankful that for me it wasn’t like that. I had the Orange flavor and it was cold. It tasted like Gatorade with extra sugar with a diet after taste and it didn’t make me sick. During the hour wait I called & talked to my grandmother and read my birthing books. Once the hour was up they called me back in to draw my blood and then told me to follow up with my doctor in a few days. By Monday I still hadn’t heard anything so I called my doctor and got the exciting news that I had passed and that my levels were great! I felt like I had won the pregnancy lottery — another test down! 

  

  • It’s seriously been like Christmas around here now that the baby shower invite(s) have gone out! We honestly come home every day to a package at the door! It’s so fun and so exciting and we feel so blessed to have so many amazing people in our lives that love and support us and that are making this time so so special for us! Cash is already the most spoiled and loved baby boy in the world! All of your thoughtfulness and kindness brings us so much happiness and joy. We will be sure to send lots of pictures after the shower(s) next weekend, however I did want to let you all know that the gifts are arriving (daily) and we are so appreciative. 
  • Our friends Leslie and Brian from Washington (who we met several years ago while they were on vacation here and just kept in touch) got married and had their wedding here in Maui! It was honestly such a blast and such a beautiful wedding for such a great couple! We danced our butts (and bump) off all night long! It was so fun to get out and get all dressed up and just spend time laughing with some great people! It’s these date nights that make me realize how much is about to really change once Cash is actually here and it makes me appreciate the one on one time with Colt that much more! 

 

The beautiful couple, just Maui’d

  
  

The stunning bride and her Dad

 

Say hello to my little friend, gecko on the bottle neck 😉

  

26 weeks

 

Dance Fever

     

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  • We got to enjoy a magical dinner under the stars and moonlight at a private birthday celebration for our friend Charlie at the Four Seasons. It was truly one of the most surreal experiences we’ve ever had and we feel so lucky to have been apart of it! 

 

Happy Birthday Charlie!!!

  
 


Cons of September:

  • My only real complaint with my pregnancy so far is the constant pelvic pressure which over the last two weeks has got much more noticeable and bothersome. The pressure is predominantly on my right side and most noticeable after a long day of work. 
  • My only other complaint constipation — self explanatory, yuck! 
  • Oh and calf / leg cramps! Talk about a 2 a.m. rude awakening!  Ouchy! 

Currently living in: 

All different style dresses, I’ve officially outgrown my “normal” clothes, welp! 

Looking forward to: 

Spending time celebrating & sharing my pregnancy with our family & friends at Cash’s baby shower(s)! 

Dreaming about: 

Being a Mom…lately I stop and wonder who SHE is. I look at her, deep into her anxiously excited but often exhausted eyes and although she looks so familiar I whisper, who are you? She smiles, this half a smile, symbolically acknowledging who she was and who she is now. She’s raw, exhausted, exposed, sometimes overwhelmed but mostly happy. So freaking happy. She knows that even on the hardest of days her new self, this new body is creating a perfect life within her. A life in which she will give her whole life for. Her body, her mind, her soul, her heart, her self. Shy but confident I look at her one last time and without a doubt of hesitation I acknowledge my new reality…I am his mother. His mother I am. 

  

Milestone: 

I leaked colostrum from my right nipple at 24 weeks 6 days. It kind of freaked me out but also kind of made me feel like a bad ass [soon to be breastfeeding mama!]

It’s a…

15 Wednesday Jul 2015

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16 weeks, Baby Boy, baby stew, First time parents, Maui

On Tuesday July 14th we met with the specialist from Oahu. He comes over to the Maui office once a month so I was grateful to be able to get an appointment here rather than having to fly over there. I woke up excited but anxious. I was really excited to see Baby Stew as well as get some actual answers on the condition of my septum but having answers also meant possible bad news so I was trying to keep an open but positive mind set. 

My appointment was at 1:15 and it seemed like the morning took forever to come and go. I was so happy when my last class finally ended at 12:00 and I was on my way (or so I thought). As I left class to go load up my van I noticed the back door wouldn’t open. Originally I thought that maybe it had locked from the inside which has happened before so I climbed around to take a look. Once I got inside I quickly realized the whole inside handle had somehow fallen off and the door was completely jammed, no no no no not today! 

I immediately tried calling Colt hoping he was still somewhere in Kihei and could come help me but his phone kept going right to voicemail so I tried a million different things until the panic finally started setting in. The clock was ticking and I was stuck I needed help and fast. I ran back into my class and asked if the teachers dad who was home could possibly come and help me. Poor guy had just come home from a root cannel but he was sweet enough to come take a look. He agreed that the door was jammed, the handle was unfixable without additional parts but he was able to get it open! I was so happy and grateful to be back on my way! 

When I arrived to the doctors office Colt was already there waiting and ready to look at the door. I had called him flipping out on my way to the doctors and he was well aware of the situation. In true Colt form he was calm and reassuring and was able to fix the door in less then 5 minutes, I was so grateful (my hero). I took a deep breath, let go of the day and we walked into the doctors office ready for anything!

After waiting for about 45 minutes they finally called our name. My stomach dropped as I thought here goes nothing! We walked into the room and we were greeted warmly by Dr. Hirata. I instantly knew I was going to like him and I could feel my whole body relax. I sat down in the chair and we went over all the routine questions and answers, minus when he asked if I had two uterus (umm, I freaking hope not) he then handed me a pair of 3D glasses to watch the ultra sound, lubed up my belly and got started. 

All I kept thinking was please, please don’t let me have two uterus. I didn’t, whew — but I did indeed have an arcuate uterus which in English basically means that although my uterus looks more normal than some other cases it actually has a dip, or slight indentation at the top. It is a more common abnormality, affecting about a quarter of women and depending on how far down the dip goes it can or can not cause different issues during pregnancy. In my case he said it was nothing to get overly worried or excited about. Colt immediately stopped him and said “can you please repeat that for her” he did — it was nothing to get overly worried or excited about. We all laughed and I once again started to feel really excited and relieved.

Once he was finished measuring and taking pictures of the septum he quickly moved on to baby Stew! It was so mind blowing getting to watch everything on those 3D glasses, it truly made me feel like I was inside my own uterus. Within seconds Baby Stew appeared on the screen and was looking cuter and bigger than ever! I squeezed Colts hand as this was the first time he was seeing the baby since our 8 week ultra sound! It was so awesome getting to see Baby Stew together. 

Dr. Hirata was measuring and talking to the nurse as we just sat there in complete awe watching Baby move around like crazy. You could now see so much of the development taking place, arms, legs, fingers, spine, eye sockets, ears and then just like that a SMILE. We froze as I loudly & overly excited asked was that just a smile?!? Indeed it had been, we got to see Baby Stew smile for the very first time. I melted into a thousand pieces and as I lay there thinking it really doesn’t get any better than this — it did, we were about to find out the sex. He asked us if we wanted to know! He had seen it on the screen and he was ready to confirm!  

Baby Stew’s Smile at 16 weeks 4 days

We very excitingly told him that yes we wanted to know and he told us that Baby Stew was a baby BOY! It was the Best.News.Ever! He then showed us to confirm and it was unmistakable our baby was a in fact a boy! Cloud 9, here we come!  

Baby Stew is a Baby BOY!

As he continued on with the ultra sound he confirmed that baby boy Stew’s heart, organs, and growth were all healthy and normal and exactly where they needed to be for 16 weeks and 4 days. He said as of now the septum is not having any adverse effects on the pregnancy or the baby and that things are good. I do however have to continue to see him throughout my pregnancy so that he can continue to keep a close eye on things. I see him again in six weeks to confirm that baby boy is still on track.

The main thing he will be keeping a close eye on is that baby continues to have enough room to grow. Other risk factors at this point are still premature labor, premature birth as well as the baby being breech and me having to deliver via c-section. Or I could carry full term and deliver naturally, we just won’t know until we know and for now that’s ok. 

  

Baby Stew is perfect and I’ve never been better. So today I’m whole heartily enjoying every second of right now and we couldn’t be anymore happy and or blessed! Thank you, thank you for all your love and prayers, we appreciate them more than you will ever know. 

We are having a boy!!  

   
    
   

Until next time….

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